To Cut or Not to Cut, That Is the Question
It’s said beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but sometimes the beholder is you looking in the mirror. And sometimes you don’t like what you see. For some, buying a new outfit or change of make-up suffices, but for others taking more drastic measures seems to be the answer.
But is cosmetic surgery really the solution?
Originally, going under the knife was for those people who had medical problems such as removing something unsightly. For instance, losing weight can result in excess skin which is not just ugly but can be uncomfortable. Since then, however, many people have found that they wanted certain parts of their body improved for cosmetic reasons. Over the intervening years this need to look and feel good about oneself has not just become a fad but has become a national obsession. Not just that though, as the need seems to be affecting younger and younger people.
But is it really necessary? Is natural beauty no longer important? Do you feel that the only way to solve a problem is to cut it off or straighten it? No one has perfect skin or a perfect body. This may be an aspiration, but it isn’t truly possible. That said, for some people removing so-called imperfection can enhance their self worth.
Is that really a bad thing? After all, isn’t there something we would all like to change?
Of course there is. It could be something as simple as crooked teeth which can now be straightened painlessly by using modern orthodontic techniques. Similarly Botox treatment has grown tremendously over recent years to remove unwanted lines under the eyes. So, cosmetic surgery does not necessarily mean a face lift or having liposuction. But if the latter are cosmetic ideas you are thinking about getting done, it is probably worthwhile considering the pros and cons.
The first question to ask is this: What is the major reason for having surgery? Is it just to remove flaws or improve social interaction and personal success? Although this is a perfectly natural thought it can if you are not careful become an obsession. Removing one unsightly flaw can lead to noticing another and another. And so it continues. Straightening teeth for instance will make you feel better, but is teeth whitening really necessary? And you can cure social fears in other ways.
If you are intent on having cosmetic surgery then the next question to ask is: What are the goals? Not all surgery will do what you expect it to. It should also be remembered that surgery can cost a lot of money. Is it really worth it? The bottom line with all this is that irrespective of the type of surgery you have it must not be forgotten that the procedure, however small, is still a medical operation. While there are benefits, there are also risks. Getting advice is paramount.
The price of a glamorous look may not in the end be a price worth paying.
This article was written by Stephen who is a freelance writer with an affinity for cosmetic dentistry information who, as well as having a passion for nice looking teeth, also thinks that the natural look has a lot going for it!
I have not had any procedures done yet that were considered cosmetic. I did have a corrective surgery on my eyelid years ago and it did not feel right for years so I can’t see me having any plastic surgery in my future. Just trying to accept aging as gracefully as I can.
I would be in the way back of the line, I don’t like pain. I was always taught that aging gracefully can be a womens best friend. My Mother always said her wrinkles she earned from worrying and the age spots on her hands were from hard work. 🙂
I’m all for aging gracefully. I think wrinkles and gray hair can be beautiful. I think corrective surgery is fine. I mostly have issues with those who have gone coo coo with surgery and look nothing like their former selves.
Nancy, you aren’t kidding. There are some woman who have taken this to the extreme and they look plain awful. And, no I won’t name names, but we are probably thinking of the same people.
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This is an excellent article. If I had more disposable income, I would probably consider a few procedures, such as getting the perfect smile or a little bit of skin resurfacing. Not interested in anything where I would have to be “put under” however!
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I do thinking taking care of yourself, liking yourself and visits to the spa can do great things too, however.
I’m not opposed to plastic surgery.
I’ve had four children, all c-sections. I’m not tall but our kids were healthy sized-around 8 pounds each. I have a lot of stretch marks and extra skin around my tummy along with the good old c-section overhang. My breasts significantly differ in size. If after much exercise and dieting with no resluts AND if I won the lottery (although I don’t play the lottery), I would get a tummy tuck and a breast job just to even them out.
But, until then, I am fine with shapewear and stretchy jeans.
I just want to say that I don’t have any problem with anyone having plastic surgery. Also, if I had had C-sections and had issues after it, I would have thought about correcting that.
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I think it is my face that I would have more problems with. I have just seen too many people with issues afterward. But, never say never.
Way back when I had a rhinoplasty not for cosmetic reasons but to correct a deviated septum from a break. The recovery was not easy. It hurt!
I am all for a little cosmetic surgery. It’s when someone has so much work done on their face that I am bothered. Some of the stars have changed their appearance so much that they are unrecognizable. Breast enhancement or reducing can do a lot for one self’s esteem. I have no desire to go under the knife. I wouldn’t mind skin resurfacing. Several years ago, I checked the laser procedure where they go down deep, but opted not to when I learned what you had to go through. Your skin is raw and looks burnt while healing and absolutely no sun for at 3 months. The sun will leave color changes and splotches. That’s what I was afraid of.
I also think aging gracefully can be beautiful. You don’t need to look young to be pretty.